The Complete Cold Reading Routines Handbook.pdf

The

Complete

Cold reading

routines Handbook

A quIck guIde to cold reAdIng, tArot cArds, And seductIon

Includes:

Interpretations for each individual tarot card

Ways to become a master of the esoteric arts

•

A quick method for doing in-ield cold readings

A method to ix of a cold reading gone bad

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and compliment them and accept disrespectful

treatment in order to win their approval.

Instead, they push-pull, demonstrate value, do

cocky funny teasing, and disqualify them in order

to win their approval.

In other words, the intention is still the same.

they’re still trying to win the approval of a com-

plete stanger. thus, all they’re doing is showing

their desperation in a new way, rather than in the

traditional way.

the general principle is that anytime you do

something you wouldn’t normally do in order to

win someone else’s approval, you are supplicat-

ing.

CongruenCy is key

leSSonS about the game from neil’S book tour

one of the things I enjoy most about book tours

is that it’s a chance to meet many of you. And

I’ve notice lately that a big diference between

stylelife students and other attraction students is

that you guys are, by and large, a cool bunch.

guys after studying attraction. they begin to un-

derstand how things work, and change the way

they dress, act, and behave around women. they

do things that they have learned cause attraction

in women: push-pull, demonstrating value, cocky

funny teasing, role-playing, disqualifying, and the

line.

so instead of becoming social artists, some men

end up just becoming better supplicators.

this doesn’t mean you can’t change. But you

should change because it makes you a better,

happier person – not because it will make people

like you more.

there are certain guys I’ve met in the community

who I’d never be able to take to dinner with my

regular friends or family, because there’s some-

thing about them that just makes people uncom-

fortable.

one of the subtleties of the game, which sepa-

rates the champs from the chumps, is being cen-

tered in yourself, and going out to have fun and

learn new things rather than show of for anyone

else.

Yet even though they’re learning so much, going

out so much, and changing so much – especially

compared to before the game, when they rarely

even approached women – they’re not improv-

ing at the pace they should. especially considering

all the work they’re putting in.

For a long time, I could never igure out what

the diference was. I thought those guys were just

not cool or too cheesy or not interested in any-

thing in life but pick up.

If you do the “ring Finger routine” or “the

cube,” for example, with the expectation that

a woman will be impressed by your knowledge

and thus ind you interesting, it will usually fall

lat. If you do the “ring Finger routine” or “the

cube” because you’re interested in learning it or

you’re curious to know more about the person

you’re talking to or you just ind it fun to do, then

you’re far more likely to create a real connection

with her.

Here’s why:

But then I realized the diference, and I want to

share it with you all in this newsletter because it’s

an important trap to avoid.

What’s one of the biggest turn-ofs to women?

I mean, besides a massive buildup of ear wax and

nose hair.

Most of us got into the game because we want

more success with women. And the reason for

many of our failures, besides approach anxiety,

was that we were too needy and desperate

around women, and didn’t understand how at-

traction worked and how to generate and em-

body attraction.

right – it’s neediness.

so then what’s one of the biggest mistake guys

who are deep into the game make?

the same goes for push-pull and disqualiication

and cocky-funny. If you’re making these bold

statements and then expecting a reaction from

her, they’re going to seem needy. And she’s going

they replace one form of neediness with an-

other.

In other words, they no longer buy girls drinks

But a strange thing happens to a certain subset of

to become uncomfortable, because she’ll sense you want or expect something

from her. But if you’re doing them because you’re truly conident, and you un-

derstand and appreciate her, and you enjoy pressing her buttons because you’re

in such deep rapport, they become powerful tools of attraction.

Contents

IntroductIon: congruencY Is tHe keY

And this is why some guys you will meet in the community you may not want

to bring out to dinner with your friends and family. It’s not that they aren’t cool.

It’s that they’re needy, and in every social interaction they’re trying to prove

something or impress someone or get a certain reaction. And so they end

up making the people they want to validate them uncomfortable. thus, they

never get the validation they’re seeking, and begin to grow negative and bitter

and incongruent with the fun, successful, happy, and conident personality they

display. their personality becomes a theater mask, hiding a very diferent sort

of person underneath.

By Neil “Style” Strauss

PAge 1 tHe esoterIc Arts overvIeW

By Evolve

PAge 3 cold reAdIng BAsIcs

By Evolve and Gypsy

PAge 4 Blood tYPe cold reAdIng

the game is an art form full of ironies. one of them is that to attract a woman

who isn’t interested in you yet, you can’t let her know that you’re attracted to

her. Another is that the harder you appear to be trying, the worse you’ll do.

And a third – and the lesson for today – is that in order to get the best reaction

from a woman, you can’t appear to be seeking a reaction.

By Evolve

PAge 5 HAnds oF tHe gods

By Neil “Style” Strauss

And, the truth is, this irony is a good thing that will help you become a better,

happier, more successful person. Because your power, your self-esteem, and

your enjoyment of each moment are yours to keep. don’t give them away

every night to complete strangers.

PAge 6 I HeArt routInes

By Evolve

PAge 7

tHe guIde to tArot cold reAds

By Evolve and Gypsy

PAge 17 APologIA esoterIcA

By Gypsy

STYLE

The

tHe esoteriC arts

overview

By evolve

By Bolshevik

If you’ve been alive and at least partially con-

scious in America during the last few months

then you’ve no doubt been exposed to the lat-

est infomercial product sweeping the nation. I’ll

give you a hint: it’s blue and soft and ridiculous.

First seen on silly low budget commercials late at

night, it has had a meteoric rise in exposure and

become a cultural phenomenon as the latest high

proile gimmicky consumer item guaranteed to

become the hot gag gift this holiday season.

AstrologY, tArot cArds, PAlM reAdIng, And rune stones HAve Been PArt

oF tHe seductIon coMMunItY sInce Its concePtIon. In neIl strAuss’ thE GamE tHese

Arts Were cAlled “cHIck crAck” BecAuse oF WoMen’s InsAtIABle APPetIte For tHe un-

knoWn. tHese Four stYles oF Fortune tellIng, And MAnY More lIke tHeM, Are All

PArt oF A grouP oF dIscIPlInes cAlled tHe esoterIc Arts.

tions the stylelife crew and I would receive if

we hit the town wearing snuggies. It dawned on

me that this could be a wonderful social experi-

ment. Would it be possible to attract women in

a toasty warm body-length blanket? After a few

clicks of the mouse our snuggies were ordered

and we were about to ind out.

It was sheer lunacy. We were in full party mode

and geared up to turn the town upside down so

we piled into gypsy’s car and loored it for Hol-

lywood.

As we approached the irst bar we were pumped

up to burst through the doors and make a splash.

the sneak busted out some impromptu freestyle

rap about the joys of wearing a snuggie as we

strode up the street towards the entrance. We

handed the bouncer our Id’s and he barely bat-

ted an eye at how obscenely ridiculous we were

dressed. I suppose a doorman in Hollywood is

prone to becoming jaded and we might have

been one of the least curious spectacles he’d

seen on a Friday night. the doors swung opon

before us and we bounded inside the bar to

make a grand entrance, expecting the arrival of

four wildly dressed snuggie freaks to ignite the

crowd into an eruption of joy at the mere sight

of us. But there was no burst of applause, laugh-

ter, or high ives. We found ourselves standing in

the middle of a quiet, near-empty bar with half-

asleep patrons. there were mostly small groups

scattered throughout all transixed on a multi-

tude of lat screen tv’s watching various sport-

tHe PrIMArY PurPose oF tHe esoterIc Arts, In regArds to seductIon, Is to HelP BuIld

coMFort As Well As An eMotIonAl connectIon. coMFort BuIldIng routInes, sucH

As “tHe cuBe” or “strAWBerrY FIelds,” AlloW You to BuIld A deeP eMotIonAl connec-

tIon WItH Your tArget. tHe esoterIc Arts do tHe sAMe WItH tHe Added BeneFIt oF

reAcHIng A Person sPIrItuAllY.

the fateful day of the snuggie adventure arrived

and we met at the stylelife oice to don the

comfy robes and sarge Hollywood. the crew

consisted of me, gypsy, the sneak, and Mike,

stylelife’s crack software developer. After some

useless arguing over who would wear which

snuggie (they were all the same size and color)

we gleefully threw on our snuggies and added

some additional accessories to make ourselves

all the more outlandish: sunglasses, headbands

and gypsy even wore a duck pin. It’s surprising

how quickly four grown adults regress to play-

ful children once they’re dressed up and feeling

giddy. We were riled up and giggling like four

Japanese school girls in a Hello kitty store. We

joked and rough housed and made up names for

our snuggie alter egos. I became snoop snuggie

snug and gypsy transformed into dJ snugglebug.

Yes, I’m talking about the snuggie. the sleeved

blanket to be worn while you lounge on the

sofa watching tv like a leece robe to keep you

comfortably wrapped in your own warmth and

shame. Much like the Flowbee in the 90’s, this

quirky item has become its own punchline. It is

the target of ridicule from high proile comedians

such as Jay leno who mercilessly mock its cheesy

commercial and the gullible dimwits who buy

them. the derision is well deserved as anyone

who’s seen one can attest that people wearing a

snuggie look absurdly silly.

relIgIon, sPIrItuAlItY, And tHe occult HAve AlWAYs Been PoWerFul tools oF seduc-

tIon. tHeY AlloW us An escAPe FroM tHe constrAInts oF tHe MAterIAl World, And

oFFer us tHe HoPe tHAt We Are not MerelY sPecks oF dust In An IndIFFerent unIverse;

sPIrItuAlItY MAkes us Feel lIke tHere Is soMetHIng lArger out tHere WorkIng In our

FAvor. tHIs Is WHY tHese sYsteMs HAve Been so PoWerFul For so long And WHY tHeY

reMAIn greAt tools For seductIon to tHIs dAY.

tHe Four Most PoPulAr esoterIc Arts Are AstrologY, tArot, PAlM reAdIng, And rune

stones. tHese Arts Are relAtIvelY coMPlex And cAn seeM overWHelMIng At FIrst

glAnce, But WItH A FeW sIMPle tIPs You cAn APPeAr As tHougH You’ve Been studYIng

AnY oF tHese Arts For YeArs.

I took this as a challenge. After all, absurdly silly

is my specialty. I wondered what kind of reac-

07 WINGMAN | FEBRUARY 2010

rapid ire banter. the riotous laughter and smiles

conirmed that we were a hit. But it was time to

press on.

knoW tHe History oF your art. Mentioning a few facts about

the roots of your art will add to the perception that you are a master. Many

esoteric arts have been around for hundreds if not thousands of years, so

there is plenty of history to choose from. A master should always know

where his art came from.

We walked proudly up the street charged from

red Bull and attention and arrived at the hottest,

most prestigious club in Hollywood. After lirting

shamelessly with some gorgeous, short skirted

women lingering in front of the club we made

an ill-conceived attempt to skip the entire line

and waltz right in. Apparently, the bouncer didn’t

share our view that four men in snuggies are akin

to celebrity and deserve instant access to the

most exclusive nightspot in town. We even tried

to convince him we were “snuggie vIP’s” but he

didn’t go for it and we went rambling on com-

pletely unfazed.

deVelop a root. every social artist should have a story that explains

how he became interested in an art that most people disregard. the story

you come up with could involve a best friend who became interested in

astrology, a mother who taught her son to read tarot cards, or an interest

in viking culture that led to learning rune reading. this story helps lesh out

the perception that you are truly interested in the esoteric arts, and not just

a guy trying to pick up women. Be sure to include some of the art’s history

as well as a personal story that supports your interest in which ever art

you’ve chosen.

astrology

Western: the irst evidence of astrology dates back to 3000 Bce. How-

ever, it wasn’t until the greeks adopted it from the Babylonians that it be-

came what most of us know as astrology today. Western astrology is the

most common form of star reading. What you read about in magazines and

in newspapers is a small fraction of Western astrology.

VediC: vedic astrology comes from India and is referred to as Jyotishi. sev-

eral universities in India actually ofer degrees in astrology, due to its cul-

tural importance. the vedic system is similar to Western astrology in many

aspects. It shares the same 12 signs that western astrology does (Aries,

taurus, gemini, etc.) as well as the same planets (sun, Moon, venus, Mars,

etc.), however the diference is that its 28 degrees behind the Western

zodiac, meaning that, if you are a scorpio in the Western zodiac then you’d

be considered a libra in vedic.

learn tHe Variations. Astrology exists all over the world in many

diferent forms. the same is true for many of the other arts. A pick up art-

ist who practices the esoteric arts will eventually run into women who talk

about very speciic styles of an art. If you know at least a few facts about the

most common variations of the arts, you’re ahead of the game.

our walk along Hollywood Boulevard was con-

stantly interrupted by partygoers stopping us to

pose for pictures. We were quite the rambunc-

tious crowd: gypsy singing improvised snuggie

melodies, Mike lirting and enjoying all the at-

tention, and sneak riing an endless barrage of

snuggie jokes. A strange thing occurred as we

stepped through the door of the next bar on our

tour: the crowd instantly burst into applause as if

they had somehow been expecting us. We piled

through the door all at once with huge smiles

on our faces and everyone in the bar laughed

and clapped as a single unit. We felt obliged to

perform so we broke out into a spontaneous

dance and hopped around to the rhythm of the

music. People loved us. We even picked up our

irst groupie. unfortunately, he was a guy. He fol-

lowed us around like a puppy dog for the rest of

the night just standing there in numb amusement

and laughing at our antics.

HaVe personal experienCe. Whether you read the stars or read

the stones, it’s crucial to have stories about other people whose fortunes

you’ve told. comparing one person to another helps an esoteric artist lesh

out the world that he’s created. the best way to obtain this information is

by doing as many readings as possible, including your own.

astro-disqualiFy

negAtIve trAIts For eAcH oF tHe sIgns to HelP You teAse tHe WoMen oF tHe

unIverse.

tarot deCks

aries: coMPetItIve, cHIldIsH

ArrogAnt, overconFIdent

libra: co-dePendent, Inde-

cIsIve, vAIn

rider Waite: the famous rider Waite deck is one of the most popular

tarot decks in the world. the cards contain an immense amount of astro-

logical and occult symbolism and are one of the best decks for any beginner

tarot reader.

taurus: lAzY, selF-Indulgent,

InsAtIABle

sCorpio: MAnIPulAtIve,

cruel, dePressIng

gemini: JudgeMentAl,

MAnIc-dePressIve, BItcHY

sagittarius: nArcIssIstIc,

ProMIscuous, excessIve

tHotH: Aleister crowley, a world famous occultist and inluential member

of an early 20th century occult group called “the Hermetic order of the

golden dawn” created this deck based on a number of diferent occult

systems. It features symbolism from cultures the world over. the deck has a

book of interpretations that accompanys it called the Book of thoth.

the next bar we entered was a dimly lit dive but,

like most spots in l.A., illed with lovely women.

gypsy and Mike wasted no time and were each

chatting up sexy blondes within minutes of walk-

ing in the door. gypsy had his girl hanging on his

every word, her body language completely ix-

ated on him as she seemed entranced by the fas-

cinating mind of this charismatic man in a lufy

monk robe. Mike and his blonde snuck of to the

CanCer: MoodY, crY-BABY, over-

ProtectIve

CapriCorn: cold, MIserlY,

MIserABle, rePressed

leo: egocentrIc, oBnoxIous,

drAMA queen

aquarius: detAcHed, over

AnAlYtIcAl, WeIrd

tHe otHers: Many other styles of decks exist. From a Lord of the Rings

deck to a fairies deck. these alternate sets are used much more like rune

stones where each card has a more personal signiicance rather than a spe-

ciic meaning.

Virgo: FolloWer, oBsessIve

coMPulsIve

pisCes: WIsHY-WAsHY, FlAkY,

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